| Location | Nottingham |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 22/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 22/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 4,657 since 29/07/2007 |
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Aidan Nicky Belshaw
Born asleep 22-07-07 4.25pm 23+1 weeks gestation.
Much loved son to Niki and Jay and little brother to Kaira
*** THANKYOU TO EVERYONE WHO LIGHTS A CANDLE OR ADDS A PICTURE FOR OUR BOY, ITS MUCH APPRECIATED
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**SORRY FOR THE LACK OF CANDLES BUT IM CURRENTLY 6 AND A HALF MTHS PREGNANT AND DONT MANAGE TO GET
ON VERY OFTEN, ALL YOUR ANGELS ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND LOVE IS SENT TO EACH OF YOU XXXXX **
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Dear Little Aidan
We only had you for a few hours but we will miss you forever. You were too tiny and special to stay
on this earth. Angels only take the precious ones.
You were very poorly, you had a severe case of a condition called PUV (Posterior Urethral Valves)
which ment your kidneys were serverly damaged due to your bladder being blocked, because of this you
had no fluid to swim around in which ment your lungs wouldnt of developed properly. There was
nothing that the docs could of done for you as your fluid level was zero, so we made the hard
decision to have you born early and to end your suffering.
I know you will be looked after in heaven by great-grandad Wilson and great-uncle Keith.
Mummy was so excited to be pregnant again and was really hoping you would be a little boy, at least
i got my wish even if it was only for a few hours. We will make sure we tell your big sister all
about you one day you looked just like her! So so beautiful!
You were also a very special boy as you had an extra set of ribs!! This is only seen in 1 in 1000
people!!!
You ment the world to me baby boy and i will never ever forget those precious hours with you.
Mummy's and Daddy's hearts will ache and miss you everyday untill we meet again.
Why do bad things have to happen to good people?? Sleep peacefully gorgeous boy.
Love you so much
Mummy and Daddy xxxxxx
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If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me,
Place them in my Son's arms
and tell him they're from me.
Tell him I love him and miss him,
and when he turns to smile,
place a kiss upon his cheek
and hold him for awhile.
Because remembering him is easy,
I do it every day,
but there's an ache within my heart
that will never go away.
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I thought of you and closed my eyes and prayed to god today,
I asked what makes a mother and I know I heard him say,
A mother has a baby this we know is true,
but god can you be a mother when youre baby's not with you?
Yes you can, came his reply with confidence in his voice,
I give so many women babies, when they leave it's not there choice,
some I send for a lifetime, and others for a day,
and some I send to feel your womb but theres no need to stay.
I just dont understand this god, I want my baby here,
he took a breath and cleared his throat and then I saw a tear,
I wish I could show you what your child is doing today,
if you could see your child smile with other children and say,
we go on earth to learn our lessons of love and life and fear,
my mummy loved me so much I got to come straight here.
I feel so lucky to have a mum who has so much love for me,
I learned my lessons very quick, my mummy set me free,
I miss my mummy oh so much but I visit her each day,
when she goes to sleep on her pillows, this is where I lay,
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek and whisper in her ear,
mummy dont be sad today im your baby and im here.
so you see dear sweet one, your children are ok,
your babies are here in my home and this is where they'll stay,
they'll wait for you with me until your lessons are through,
and on the day that you come home they'll be at the gates for you.
so you see what makes a mother, its the feeling in your heart,
its the love you had so much of, right from the very start,
though some on earth may not realise until their time is done
remember all the love you have and know that you are
a special mum................
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An angel with the book of life,
Wrote our baby's birth,
And whispered as she closed the book,
'Too beautiful for earth...'
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Though your smile is gone forever,
Your hands we cannot touch,
Still we have so many memories,
Of the ones we love so much
Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part,
God has you in his keeping,
While we have you in our hearts
On angel wings you do fly
On angel wings into the sky
On angel wings i do cry
Because those angel wings took you away
On angel wings the heralds sing
Is there no such lovely thing?
On angel wings you fly away.
I will see these angel wings again someday
When i am old and my time has come
On angel wings I will fly
Until I'm holding you once again
Smiling on angel wings.
I know I am still with you
in your prayers, your thoughts, your heart
And though you cannot see me,
I will always be a part
of life's sweet celebrations
in those times when you reflect
on how, though things are different,
through our love, we still connect.
We'll see each other someday
when our spirits all are free,
until then, I am with you
because you remember me.
xxxxxxx
I asked the Lord to bless you
As I prayed for you today
To guide you and protect you
As you go along the way.
His love is always with you
His promises are true,
And when we give Him all our cares
He will always see us through.
So when the road you're traveling on
Seems difficult at best
Just remember I'm here praying
And God will do the rest
There are angels in the Heavens,
There are angels on the ground.
There are angels all around you,
Just waiting to be found.
So when you are feeling lonely
Or just a little blue,
Open your eyes to see the angels,
They are there, waiting for you.
Don't forget about these angels
During all of your good times too,
For they like to share your happiness
And the joys that come to you.
They will wrap their wings around you,
To protect and guide you through
All the sad and tragic moments
That this life can throw at you.
They are sent to you from Heaven
From our Father up above,
So remember to look for the angels.
They'll show you all God's Love.
Love you babe!
Hi darling boy! Sorry ive not been leaving you messages as much as i should but mummys pc is rubbish!! Tell your daddy he should buy me a laptop, he wont listen to me! hahaha!! Anyway we all love you lots and lots and nanna is still trying to sort her site out so she can get on! Sending you lots and lots of floaty kisses, speak soon my little prince xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi Darcy fly high and spread all your love to mummy daddy and nanna xxx I will leave you all my love xxx
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in your heart. Good night angel xxxxx
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Baby Tears
We cried tears when we learned that a child would be, that your GOD had allowed you to quicken in me. We cried tears with our loved ones as they shared our joy, and we thought about names for a girl or a boy. I cried tears as I thought of the things that we would do, all the things that your Daddy would pass on to you. And I cried as I thought of each inch you had grown, as I pondered the day you’d make yourself known. Then, to think of the world you must enter brought fears. Once again, little loved one, your Mother cried tears.
Something’s wrong, I can tell – once again there are tears, and I’ll not get the chance of your love through the years. Oh the ache and the sorrow and all of the pain, and again, yes again, my tears fell like rain. Then His peace comes to me as I think of you there, gently rocking with FATHER in His favorite chair. Your sweet little fingers clenched tight in His palm and His SON softly singing to help keep you calm. Our FATHER knew you days before they came to be, and He knew, little one, you would not stay with me. So, I cry but I know that when this life is done, I will greet and embrace you my little sweet one. There’s a time to be born and a time to die, and the joy and the sorrow both make us cry!
Love you
Hi baby! Sorry mummys not been on much lately ive been busy with that pain in the bum sister of yours haha! Bet you sit giggling at her dont you!! She is funny though! Anyway mummy and daddy love you lots and lots and hope you come and see us everyday. Speak you you later baby love you lots xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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