| Location | Nottingham |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 22/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 22/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 4,658 since 29/07/2007 |
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Aidan Nicky Belshaw
Born asleep 22-07-07 4.25pm 23+1 weeks gestation.
Much loved son to Niki and Jay and little brother to Kaira
*** THANKYOU TO EVERYONE WHO LIGHTS A CANDLE OR ADDS A PICTURE FOR OUR BOY, ITS MUCH APPRECIATED
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**SORRY FOR THE LACK OF CANDLES BUT IM CURRENTLY 6 AND A HALF MTHS PREGNANT AND DONT MANAGE TO GET
ON VERY OFTEN, ALL YOUR ANGELS ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND LOVE IS SENT TO EACH OF YOU XXXXX **
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Dear Little Aidan
We only had you for a few hours but we will miss you forever. You were too tiny and special to stay
on this earth. Angels only take the precious ones.
You were very poorly, you had a severe case of a condition called PUV (Posterior Urethral Valves)
which ment your kidneys were serverly damaged due to your bladder being blocked, because of this you
had no fluid to swim around in which ment your lungs wouldnt of developed properly. There was
nothing that the docs could of done for you as your fluid level was zero, so we made the hard
decision to have you born early and to end your suffering.
I know you will be looked after in heaven by great-grandad Wilson and great-uncle Keith.
Mummy was so excited to be pregnant again and was really hoping you would be a little boy, at least
i got my wish even if it was only for a few hours. We will make sure we tell your big sister all
about you one day you looked just like her! So so beautiful!
You were also a very special boy as you had an extra set of ribs!! This is only seen in 1 in 1000
people!!!
You ment the world to me baby boy and i will never ever forget those precious hours with you.
Mummy's and Daddy's hearts will ache and miss you everyday untill we meet again.
Why do bad things have to happen to good people?? Sleep peacefully gorgeous boy.
Love you so much
Mummy and Daddy xxxxxx
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If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me,
Place them in my Son's arms
and tell him they're from me.
Tell him I love him and miss him,
and when he turns to smile,
place a kiss upon his cheek
and hold him for awhile.
Because remembering him is easy,
I do it every day,
but there's an ache within my heart
that will never go away.
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I thought of you and closed my eyes and prayed to god today,
I asked what makes a mother and I know I heard him say,
A mother has a baby this we know is true,
but god can you be a mother when youre baby's not with you?
Yes you can, came his reply with confidence in his voice,
I give so many women babies, when they leave it's not there choice,
some I send for a lifetime, and others for a day,
and some I send to feel your womb but theres no need to stay.
I just dont understand this god, I want my baby here,
he took a breath and cleared his throat and then I saw a tear,
I wish I could show you what your child is doing today,
if you could see your child smile with other children and say,
we go on earth to learn our lessons of love and life and fear,
my mummy loved me so much I got to come straight here.
I feel so lucky to have a mum who has so much love for me,
I learned my lessons very quick, my mummy set me free,
I miss my mummy oh so much but I visit her each day,
when she goes to sleep on her pillows, this is where I lay,
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek and whisper in her ear,
mummy dont be sad today im your baby and im here.
so you see dear sweet one, your children are ok,
your babies are here in my home and this is where they'll stay,
they'll wait for you with me until your lessons are through,
and on the day that you come home they'll be at the gates for you.
so you see what makes a mother, its the feeling in your heart,
its the love you had so much of, right from the very start,
though some on earth may not realise until their time is done
remember all the love you have and know that you are
a special mum................
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An angel with the book of life,
Wrote our baby's birth,
And whispered as she closed the book,
'Too beautiful for earth...'
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Love Lives On
Those we love remain with us
for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade
because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be
more than a thought apart,
for as long as there is memory,
they'll live on in the heart.
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----HAPPY NEW YEAR
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When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you.
And each time that you think of me
I know you'll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
And took me by the hand.
If we could bring you back again,
For one more hour or day,
We’d express all our unspoken love;
We’d have countless things to say.
If we could bring you back again,
We’d say we treasured you,
And that your presence in our lives
Meant more than we ever knew.
If we could bring you back again,
To tell you what we should,
You’d know how much we miss you now,
And if we could, we would.
Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part.
To help us feel we're with them still
And soothe a grieving heart.
Our memories span the years we shared,
Preserving ties that bind.
They build a special bridge of love
And bring us peace of mind.
As New Year approaches
It seems harder this time of year
We miss you so much more
The only thing that gets us through
Are the memories of before
So here's a card just for you
To show how much we care
I know your waiting with the angels
One day I'll see you there.
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes gifts and kind words they have left on Christopher’s website I appreciate every single one.
I would also like to wish you all A Happy New Year & my best wishes for 2009.
Angela X
New Years Eve
Recipe for Christmas All Year Long
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Take a heap of child-like wonder
That opens up our eyes
To the unexpected gifts in life—
Each day a sweet surprise.
Mix in fond appreciation
For the people whom we know;
Like festive Christmas candles,
Each one has a special glow.
Add some giggles and some laughter,
A dash of Christmas food,
(Amazing how a piece of pie
Improves our attitude!)
Stir it all with human kindness;
Wrap it up in love and peace,
Decorate with optimism, and
Our joy will never cease.
If we use this healthy recipe,
We know we will remember
To be in the Christmas spirit,
Even when it's not December.
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As Christmas time approaches
We miss you more and more
Memories of past Yule times
We always will adore
We still hang the decorations
Put the lights upon the tree
We hang the cards upon the wall
This one's for you, you see
Even though you are not here
You're always in our hearts
So we remember you this Christmas
While we're temporarily apart.
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I've set your place at the table
Your presents wrapped under the tree
Christmas carols playing
But you're not here with me
It seems harder this time of year
I miss you so much more
The only thing that gets me through
Are the memories of before
So here's a card just for you
To show how much I care
I know your waiting with the angels
One day I'll see you there.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
Just letting you know I was here
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to leave my love xxxxxxxx
*♥* MERRY CHRISTMAS ANGELS IN HEAVEN *♥*
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SENDING YOU ALL MY LOVE FOR CHRISTMAS
Christmas Without You
Christmas without you here with me,
can never possibly be the same.
But I carry an Angel within my heart;
one so precious, who has your name.
An Angel forever watching over me,
at Christmas time, and over the year.
Although you can't be here anymore,
inside my heart, you are so very near.
There is no special present for you,
wrapped up under my Christmas tree.
But I have a greater gift to give to you;
all the love you can still feel from me.
No, Christmas time without you here,
could not ever possibly be the same.
But, I have had the precious gift of you,
and the memories and love, will remain.
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Wish we could be together
Thinking of you
Makes the miles disappear,
Together we're looking at bright decorations,
Enjoying what we like to do,
Thinking of you makes the miles disappear~
For you're missed very much
All year through…
So just because you're
Far away, don't think
For a moment that you're forgotten.
I'm thinking about you because loving thoughts travel far,
And wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year xxxxx
What My Child Has Taught Me
I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I've learned that learning to forgive takes a lot of practice.
I've learned that friends can become strangers, and strangers can become friends.
I've learned that ignorance isn't an excuse for the lack of compassion.
I've learned that some people will never, ever - "get it".
I've learned that the community of sorrow is the strongest of all.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of minutes.
I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that love isn't measured by the amount of time you have with someone.
I've learned that some sorrow is so deep that it has no words. But so is love.
As your heart aches each day, look at the stars as smiles from the many angels that heaven holds. Thank you for touching my heart ♥
When a loved one dies,
It breaks our hearts,
The minutes, hours, days and years,
Never truely takes our pain away,
The parting is not forever,
They are waiting at the gates,
An outstretched hand, a beaming smile,
With a voice that says i've been here a while,
I'm glad you came, life up here was not the same,
We are together again, reunited in love,
And free from all our parting pain.
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I love you xxx
Hi my special boy, sorry mummy or nanna hasnt left any messages lately but you know i speak to you everyday so its ok!! Make sure Great Grandad has you wrapped up nice and warm! Bet you cant wait for santa to come, have you been a good boy?? If your anything like your sister than no!!! Right my lovely mummy has to go now. Love you millions beautiful speak to you later xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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